A Gossiper Is A Haters 1st Cousin

Question: When is it ever acceptable to spill the tea about a person or person’s business as if your manure don’t stink?

And do you really think by telling me the classic line, “I don’t normally talk about other people,” that I will trust you with my wears? If I told you to get the fuck out of here I would be too kind, so I decided to drop you a vine and give you an entire portion of my mind. 

I hate it when people in casual conversation go, “Don’t tell anyone, but…” 

Because they are the same people who talk about you when your back is turned and smile in your face when their breath tastes like ass because all they do is talk trash. 

I have never been one to gossip or share in the disgusting behavior of distrust because very often it means that you have nothing meaningful going on in your life. 

Which I feel makes up the typical profile of the hater. They often are the people who lack the courage to chase their dreams, so they feel they must be the misery that loves company and discourages yours.

Distance is the best remedy for a fool and if they persist to stay all up in your space, it’s a must you take them to school. 

There is something to be said about people who don’t recognize their own ill advised behavior… 

And think that they are doing you a favor by informing you about your neighbor. 

They smile in your face, meanwhile, they have your entire office looking at you funny like something is wrong with you. 

And it happens at all levels from the receptionist to the manager and bosses too. This is why you should keep your business to yourself. 

Business should be handled and not shared. 

Besides, why would you knowingly sabotage yourself by creating road blocks with your most willing haters? 

We are in a time where people are extremely frustrated with where they are in their life and don’t quite understand that they are both the problem and the cure. 

Nothing limits ones potential like limited information. 

I prefer to associate with those who are upward mobile, smart, and super sharp. 

Because from this clique, the only scoops I get are the ones that attach to the come up or the extra coin. 

The people who have it going on don’t have time to listen to what’s going on, because they are too busy making the news that people love to gossip about.

A gossiper is a haters 1st cousin. 

They are quick to ask the most intrusive questions and when alone in the confines of their space, they always share what they distaste about someone else. 

They almost never have anything good to say about anyone, which in itself is the bad energy that attracts the foul stench of drama. 

They avoid the mirror like the night creature Dracula, because escaping blame is why they creep in the shadows of other people’s business. 

They are never accountable to the issues they cause and very often think they are above retribution, because in their own insanity they think they should be the bearer of bad news. 

One should never be that lonely or insecure to accept this type of person as a friend because they will only fry you in the end 

And last but not least, be careful of the people you help that are in need, because when they are down they are quick to act like they are down for everything you stand for and once they get up they quickly show you their ass.

Some time ago, I was approached by someone I had a brief acquaintance with and had been watching my progression over the years through social media. 

They contacted me to find out what it was exactly that I do. 

Once they found out how successful I was, they wanted in. 

I naturally gave them the hand up and trained them as well. Once they learned what took me decades to master, they thought what I was doing wasn’t working for them, so they tried to reinvent the wheel.

But that’s not all — They tried to take my entire team and turn them against me. 

Unfortunately for them, you can’t take what’s not yours, and they were put on a island and went from being a fast grower to a tortoise. 

Meanwhile, I chose to show them grace. After all, I didn’t lose a thing and the best part about it is I found out who my hater was. 

So the moral of the story is don’t feed every dog you see suffering, some just need strength to bite you. 

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